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EPISODE 53

LIFE TRANSITIONS

HEALING & SELF TRUST

RELATIONSHIPS

What I've Learned in the Year Since Leaving My Job

Josh Filler

Husband and Extraordinaire

๐Ÿ’ก ABOUT THIS EPISODE

A year after leaving federal government, I'm sitting down with my husband Josh to open Season 2 of Motivation N'at, and this time I flipped the format so he's the one asking the questions. Josh was my very first guest when this show launched, and now he's interviewing me about what a year of leaving that job, hosting more than 50 conversations with over 40 guests, and figuring out what comes next has actually taught me about myself.


We get into burnout I didn't expect to still be facing, therapy sessions that got heavier instead of lighter, and the moment I finally paid someone to help rebrand my business after resisting it for months. It's an honest look at what a year of self-discovery costs and what it gives back, told by two people who've been living it together in the same house. This isn't a highlight reel of a good year. It's what actually happened in one.

๐ŸŽฏ KEY TAKEAWAYS

๐Ÿ”น The reinforcement I needed Leaving a large, high-impact job doesn't mean giving up the ability to have real impact somewhere else.

๐Ÿ”น Burnout doesn't ask permission A year after leaving the job that caused it, burnout showed up twice more, just differently.

๐Ÿ”น Listening became the real work What started as a personal, solo-driven show turned into something built almost entirely on hearing other people's stories first.

๐Ÿ”น The miscarriage I hadn't discussed A year of interviews surfaced grief I thought I'd already processed, including a loss from years earlier I'd never said out loud.

๐Ÿ”น Paying for expertise I couldn't see in myself Sometimes the thing holding you back isn't visible from the inside, no matter how long you've been looking at it.

๐Ÿ”น A husband on the other side of the mic Josh, the show's first-ever guest, returns a year later to ask the questions instead of answering them.

๐Ÿ”น What comes next isn't fully decided Season 2 opens without a tidy answer for what the next year of leaving, listening, and learning looks like.

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LIFE TRANSITIONS

HEALING & SELF TRUST

RELATIONSHIPS

YOUR HOST

Natalie Bulger

Founder, NC Bulger Solutions

Healthcare risk and compliance consultant, Pittsburgh's 40 Under 40 honoree, and the person asking the questions everyone else is too polished to ask. A living example of taking hot mess to high potential every day.

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